Ask Professor Lately……She Only Date’s Black Men

This is a female I went to college with, she is from a predominately white community and says that she is only attracted to black men. However, when asked why everything about her suddenly changed, she says that this is how she has acted since she started dating her first black boyfriend freshman year of High School. When speaking to her personally about why this is not okay, she says that all black girls are just jealous or racist, it is 2017 we should just get over it. Please share your thoughts. 


Feel free to delete her. Her words, not yours. So she can’t be upset. If she cared about your opinion she would be receptive to it. You can’t make someone who doesn’t care to see their wrongs see them on your time. That’s the hardest pill to swallow. As humans, when we share our views on a situation and if the other person doesn’t agree or hear us out we get even more upset. You can’t change someone who doesn’t want to be changed. That’s #1. You did your part by addressing the problem with her. That’s all you can do. If there were other people who addressed her, maybe she would see her wrong doings. On that note, if the black men she is dating aren’t correcting her, delete them too! You have the right to be offended and you also have the right to delete ignorance. It’s 2017, no black girl has a reason to be jealous of another race. It has never been a better time to be black and proud. We are taking over the world like never before. Remind her of that also.

-xo Professor Lately 

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