Why Mr. Wrong Feels Like Mr. Right
Let me be the first to tell you, us as women are most comfortable when our significant other’s attitude toward us matches our own attitude toward ourselves. Crazy right? But it’s true. In other words, we are drawn to people who treat us the way we think we should be treated. So whenever you’re dealing with an attitude you don’t like, think about how you treat yourself at times and what you allow. Yep, it sucks but you’re sticking around which means you may actually like it.
Finding the right man will not make you a better person. In order to get rid of Mr. Wrong, you must become Ms.Right. That means loving yourself for whom you are first then Mr. Right will come. You have to change mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. All of these will allow you to know what you’re looking for in your next relationship. Are you looking for certain qualities? Don’t be afraid to have standards and not accept another Mr. Wrong again. Understand that your past mistake is your past and you can move forward. You don’t have to deal with yelling, insecurities, cheating, selfishness, bitterness and anger that comes with Mr. Wrong. Mr. Right will be the opposite. He will be there to comfort you because you can identify when you need comfort. He will accept you for who you are because you have accepted yourself. He will share his goals and future plans because that’s what you require. He will not be perfect but he can be perfect for you. Be patient and let things flow and work itself out.
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Nicole S. Daniel is a young blogger, author, and entrepreneur from Birmingham, AL. She currently attends Miles College studying Communications.