Before You Push For A Relationship, Stop & Think
Some women these days are so hell bent on being in a relationship that they’re practically pushing men into relationships they aren’t ready for. Then they have the nerve to get upset when things don’t go as planned or end abruptly. Ladies, stop pushing men into relationships. If a man tells you he’s not ready then believe him.
Everybody has their own reasons as to why they aren’t looking to be in a relationship. Some people might want to recover from their last break up or they might just want to focus on their self at the moment. Whatever the case may be, respect it. Have you every just sat and thought about why you keep jumping from guy to guy or why you keep ending up single?
Maybe you aren’t taking the time you need to breathe or get over your last relationship. This is unhealthy and if men keep allowing you to push them into relationships then the sequence is only going to continue.
Nothing is wrong with just dating. Dating is a great way to get to know someone without feeling a commitment or a sense of entitlement to a person. And yes, you can date more than one person at a time. Dating helps you find yourself and it helps you figure out what you like in a significant other. So if you can do all of that before it’s time to take it to the next level great.
Communication Is Key
You may save yourself some heartbreak or time, by simply discussing each other’s likes, dislikes, and views on religion or politics. This is the purpose of dating! Stop feeling like you need a title because “everybody else doing it.” True, your girlfriends will be there if the relationship goes sour, but they can never take away the pain you feel.
Pushing a man into a relationship never has a fairy tale ending, so if you’re looking for a lifelong commitment then take the necessary steps and be patient with the person. They may be going through a rough patch or they may not feel like their financially stable to be in a relationship at the moment and you’ll know if the guy is worth waiting or sticking around for. You never know you guys could start out dating and then two years later you could realize…. ISSA HUSBAND!
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My name is Miranda Brown. I am a proud Alumna of Tennessee State University class of 2016. I am from Franklin, TN a small town right outside of Nashville. I am very much so an introvert, but I do tend to sometimes come out of my shell as I'm known as the extra-dramatic friend. I love writing and blogging even more. My favorite quote is, "reality is wrong. dreams are real" - Tupac. I'm all about being positive and spreading good vibes.