one of them trick, to stand out from the crowd, because if we are different from the average, people will be drawn to us. This may seem difficult at first reading, because so far we are trying to blend in with the environment, but it is good to know that the difference is mysterious and attractive. It is irresistible when someone does things differently than the majority. But of course, that doesn’t mean that everything we do differently can be attractive.
Attention and skill
Other practices include that if we are communicating with someone, we should really pay attention to them and not interrupt them when they are speaking. Many people don’t even notice when they interrupt the other person not out of deliberate rudeness, but out of impatience or insecurity. If we interrupt, we want them to see us in the dialogue, we want to indicate our presence. But they will not respect us in this way. You have to give the other person space, you have to allow him to develop, this is also done by successful leaders, who are happy when other people can reach their full potential along with them.
The next trick is to have something we’re good at. Developing a skill at an above-average level requires a special kind of perseverance and perseverance that not many people possess. Think about sports champions, why do millions worship them? Therefore, they look special because they have something that we humans do not. We can be skilled jugglers, entertainers, dancers, teachers, inventors, whatever skills we possess that we cultivate at an above-average level make us attractive in the eyes of the majority.
Strange little accessory
if We disagree From the habit or from the image that others have of us, we can still deceive people in us. Subtle nuances (by no means loud, because this is the trend today) can be effective, for example, adding a special watch, jewelry or stockings to ordinary clothes.
Because if we put on a surprising piece of clothing or accessory, we won’t be forgotten, and memorable things increase our worth — which is attractive.
Let’s be more resistant to criticism, don’t get upset, don’t get angry right away, and don’t take things personally. And let us not hide in silence because of our mischief, because then we may appear insecure, it can devour us from the inside, and it is unattractive in the eyes of others. We have to make them think we’re not offended by criticism, and smile even if they insult us, so we’ll look like a tough case and instantly become interesting. Moreover, they will no longer criticize us, because they see that it is not worth it.
Vulnerable, but tough
We can turn the conversation to our advantage by telling us something about ourselves that takes courage to share. It takes courage to reveal our faults, which destroy our apparent perfection. But that doesn’t mean we have to share everything (our physical condition, our weaknesses), just feel free to show our vulnerable side. Everyone has it, and if we show it to ourselves, we also provide support to others, this is our strength.
Don’t swallow it all, we can be fools sometimes! Because yes, most people do their best to appear cute and harmless, but in the effort their true personality often gets hidden. So
Please, let’s be completely confident and suspicious, this will keep us away from a lot of people who are the same. You don’t always have to be nice, everyone tries.
If we stand out from this line, it will have a refreshing effect on others. A little trick will attract fans.
Let’s really pay attention to our partner. Many people don’t really engage in the conversation in their heads, but if we really focus on the other person, and listen and take in what they’re saying, we’ll be good listeners. The other will be amazed at how much we care about him, even if he barely speaks. Let’s be 100% present in communication!
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